Category Archives: The Atheist’s Pulpit

One believer’s view.

The catalyst almost killed us

We were driving in rush hour traffic just after sunset. Although New Mexico was getting hammered by a snowstorm, the roads near us were only wet, not slushy or icy. Driving east on Indian School, we intended to turn north on San Pedro. The traffic light at that T-intersection was dark (not blinking, no light at all, not even a street light). Everyone was treating the situation as a 3-way stop. Two lanes southbound, two lanes northbound, our two lanes turning from east to northbound, plus a third land turning from east to southbound. Traffic was proceeding smoothly, despite the tricky situation.

A car northbound in the lane we would turn into took its turn. Before we could turn next, another car slipped through after that one. Call this one the catalyst. True to the word, that car was unaffected by a process that depended on it. The driver was a little opportunistic, perhaps a bit rude, not obviously dangerous. We started our turn (in two senses of the word). As we turned, a northbound white pickup flew through the intersection in the lane we were turning into. To me, it appeared out of nowhere because the car to its left, waiting its turn, blocked my view of approaching truck. I slammed on the brakes and hit the horn simultaneously as the truck slipped by in front of us. Seconds separated us from a passenger-side collision. Perhaps just the front of our truck would have been hit. Perhaps Merri’s door. Perhaps we would have been shoved into the two lanes of south-bound traffic. In this Universe, we don’t know, but in another … death and destruction.

To give you a sense of how quickly this transpired, neither Merri nor I had time to be scared. I can’t believe how lucky we were or how close we were to unlucky. I still don’t understand why our standard-transmission truck didn’t stall when I slammed on the brakes. It took a mile before my blood pressure came down again.

I can imagine the perspective of the guy who almost killed us. (In fact, I might have hit him, though at a much slower speed.) That car to his left blocked his view of me. If he doesn’t know the area, he wouldn’t expect cars coming in from the left, with no light and no street to his right (the T).

It’s the catalyst I blame and at whom I am angry. Had he waited his turn, the truck that almost killed us would have seen cars were stopping before going. (Or, would that truck have rear-ended the catalyst?) I assume the catalyst has no clue what his seemingly innocent out-of-turn move could have caused. In another Universe, I track him down and punch him in the face.

Trust me, I’m an atheist

We all know deeply religious people who cannot be trusted. They lie, they steal, they cheat on their spouses, they use others for their own profit. We all know of bloody wars fought between deeply, sincerely religious groups. We all know situations in which a religious majority has horribly abused, tortured, and persecuted a religious minority. We know this, yet we think they are good because god is watching. What incredible, hypocritical bullshit.

I especially resent the suggestion that I don’t have a moral code because I know there is no god, there is no immortal soul, and there is no afterlife. I value life more than many who think their reward comes later, especially if they die for their bloodthirsty god. If your moral code requires you to tolerate me, then we are fine. If your moral code makes you superior to me, makes you mistrust me, then to hell with your beliefs.

UBC study explores distrust of atheists by believers | e! Science News

Distrust is the central motivating factor behind why religious people dislike atheists, according to a new study led by University of British Columbia psychologists. "Where there are religious majorities — that is, in most of the world — atheists are among the least trusted people," says lead author Will Gervais, a doctoral student in UBC’s Dept. of Psychology. "With more than half a billion atheists worldwide, this prejudice has the potential to affect a substantial number of people."The researchers conducted a series of six studies with 350 American adults and nearly 420 university students in Canada, posing a number of hypothetical questions and scenarios to the groups. In one study, participants found a description of an untrustworthy person to be more representative of atheists than of Christians, Muslims, gay men, feminists or Jewish people. Only rapists were distrusted to a comparable degree. …

The researchers concluded that religious believer’s distrust — rather than dislike or disgust — was the central motivator of prejudice against atheists, adding that these studies offer important clues on how to combat this prejudice. …

The religious behaviors of others may provide believers with important social cues, the researchers say. "Outward displays of belief in God may be viewed as a proxy for trustworthiness, particularly by religious believers who think that people behave better if they feel that God is watching them," says Norenzayan. "While atheists may see their disbelief as a private matter on a metaphysical issue, believers may consider atheists’ absence of belief as a public threat to cooperation and honesty."

UBC study explores distrust of atheists by believers | e! Science News

Do you have a carbon monoxide detector? Is it over 2 years old? Does it work? Ours didn’t.

Two weeks ago, our 26-years-old oven acted weird: it would not come on. We turned it off and on to no avail several times. We left it off for a while and the next time it came on. Weird. Over the next couple of weeks, the oven worked, but the burners started sputtering oddly.

In that same period, Merri experienced some lethargy. Luke also exhibited some lethargy. Lethargy is harder to notice in me. On Saturday, we both felt some nausea and both napped for two hours unexpectedly.

Tonight, Merri called the gas company. Art came out at 8pm and detected over 350ppm CO at the oven vent (fatal under an hour); over 40ppm several rooms away from the kitchen. Merri saved our lives. Our old oven is red-tagged and our 35-years-old gas meter replaced.

Yeah, it’s obvious what was wrong: the oven was venting carbon monoxide. Yes, we’re lucky to be alive. Yes, we should have acted sooner. I’m writing to say how easy it is to stall, waiting for more evidence, even when the evidence is obvious compressed into two short paragraphs.

And note: we had a carbon monoxide detector next to the stove. I tested it a month ago; it still beeps to the test, batteries are fine. Did you know most detectors have a two year lifespan?

Carbon Monoxide Detectors

be aware that the average life span of many carbon monoxide detectors is about 2 years. The ‘test’ feature on many detectors checks the functioning of the alarm and not the status of the detector.

Carbon Monoxide Detectors

Test for Carbon Monoxide in the Home

Here’s How: Purchase a passive CO test kit (detector badge) at your local hardware or building supply store.

Test for Carbon Monoxide in the Home

Carbon Monoxide Questions and Answers

  • How should a consumer test a CO alarm to make sure it is working?

    Consumers should follow the manufacturer’s instructions. Using a test button tests whether the circuitry is operating correctly, not the accuracy of the sensor. Alarms have a recommended replacement age, which can be obtained from the product literature or from the manufacturer.

  • How should I install a CO Alarm?

    CO alarms should be installed according to the manufacturer’s instructions. CPSC recommends that one CO alarm be installed in the hallway outside the bedrooms in each separate sleeping area of the home. CO alarms may be installed into a plug-in receptacle or high on the wall. Hard wired or plug-in CO alarms should have battery backup. Avoid locations that are near heating vents or that can be covered by furniture or draperies. CPSC does not recommend installing CO alarms in kitchens or above fuel-burning appliances.

  • Carbon Monoxide Questions and Answers

    Do the dead miss living?

    I’m as confident as I can be that death is the absolute and final end of the individual. Yes, our atoms continue to exist as part of the world. Yes, our energy dissipates. But our personalities, identities, minds wink out forever and completely.

    It is a depressing thought, which explains why so many people refuse to think it. For those who imagine an afterlife, how can it be that the dead aren’t miserable? If you were ripped from your family and friends, what would it take to make you not care at all about that? Seventy virgins? (All one needs to know about the misogyny of Islam. But don’t be smug: all religions distort women, even Wicca.) In Christian Heaven, you are reunited with everyone you used to love (is Grandpa still 99 – forever – would that be his idea of heaven?). Is that reunion enough to make you wait for the not-yet-dead to follow? Is Heaven like pausing in the shade on a trail, waiting for a straggler to catch up?

    I know I’m verging on mockery: nonsense lends itself to that. If my beliefs hurt or anger you, believe what you will. If we meet on the other side, I owe you a Coke.

    30 Years Ago

    mjh & MR in Landmark Shopping Center photo machine, Alexandria, VA, January 1984Friday night, Halloween weekend, 1981, Robert Coontz brought someone new home for dinner (probably spaghetti). I stood in the living room to meet her and she walked around the far side of the coffee table, nose in the air. She wasn’t avoiding me (she said), just sniffing her surroundings, having been a dog in a former life. That was my introduction to Merri Rudd, my belovéd-to-be.

    [photo: mjh & MR in Landmark Shopping Center photo machine, Alexandria, VA, January 1984.]